Last night I went to the opening of a new spa in Gramercy Park. The Olive Leaf Wholeness Center and Spa is a two level holistic spa. Besides the usual facials and massages, they also offer some unusual treatments. Here you’ll find bamboo facials, blue oil steam facials, Caribbean mud body and foot wraps, and the vitamin tea eye wrap.

I loved the way it was decorated with a palette of sage, beige and earth tones. The general effect was soft, tranquil, and serene. I felt so calm and rested, I began envisioning re-doing my apartment in those colors; using their minimalistic approach to design. I could start tossing items that night, and then hit the paint store in the morning. Then I remembered how many shoes I own, my handbag wall, and my vintage hat collection. I’m not sure that minimalism is for me.

The Olive Leaf Wholeness Center is located at 145 East 23rd Street, between Lexington and 3rd avenues. To learn more about the spa and what it offers, visit their website, http://www.olwcnyc.com. To make an appointment for a facial, body wrap, or reflexology session, call at 212-477-0405.

So did your jaw fit the floor when the final three were announced at the end of Project Runway? I am in shock. I may just stay under my bed until spring. I can’t believe that psychotic Wendy is in the final three. I am flabbergasted that they picked a woman who designs the same things over and over again. A designer, who couldn’t finish a hem on most of her pieces, is now going to have a collection shown under the tents this week.

There are so many fun events going on around town, you’d think it’s spring. Here’s just a sampling of what’s going on in Gotham. . But first, I must tell you about a fabulous sale!

Peter Elliot is having a huge blow out sale, so start making room in your closets, because the sale starts Monday, February 14th, (what a great Valentine), and ends February 26th.

Both shops, Peter Elliot at 1070 Madison Avenue @81st Street, and Peter Elliot Women at 1071 Madison Avenue @81St Street, are participating in the sale. You’ll find items up to 60% -75% off all sale items, including: Luigi Borrelli handmade shirts for men on sale for $150, originally $325-$425. , Majestic Lycra T-shirts for women were $98.00, now $25, Peter Elliot Italian Pants for women, were $295 – now $65, And Peter Elliot Dress Shirts for boys. They were $95 – now $35.

Get ready to shop!

Tonight singer Isabel Rose will be performing backed by a nine-piece combo that easily moves from 50′s standards to her “empowered pop.” Rose also co-wrote and starred in the movie, “Anything but Love.” This Yalie also has a novel coming out, “The J.A.P. Chronicles” (Doubleday) this May.

What: Isabel Rose
When: Tonight, 8 PM
Where: Makor, 35 West 67th Street
Cost: $15.00
Contact: 212-601-1000
Website:
http://92y.org

Multi-media artist Morton Subotnick is premiering “Until Spring Revisited” tonight at Symphony Space. It’s a digital surround sound and video piece. He’s one of the pioneers of electronic music. His piece, “Silver Apples of the Moon” has been used by many ballet companies.

What: Multimedia Concert by Morton Subotnick
When: Tonight, 8 PM
Where: Symphony Space, 2537 Broadway
Cost: $20
Contact: 212-864-1414
Website: http://www.symphonyspace.org/

If you feel like a fancy dress party, the Black Finn restaurant is sponsoring a “Roaring 20′s” party. Grab your gat, flapper dress, pinstripe suit and start practicing the Black Bottom. There will be $100 cash prizes to the best dressed gangster and flapper. There’s a $30 drink special.

What: Roaring 20′s Party @ The Black Finn
When: Saturday, February 12th, 9PM – 12PM
Where: 218 East 53rd Street, between 2nd and 3rd Avenues
Contact: 212 -355-6607
Website: http://www.blackfinnnyc.com/home.cfm

The annual Pink Party is being held at Crash Mansion. All pink drinks will be on special, and they’ll have pink beer. Yes, you read that correctly. Anyone wearing pink will get in for $5.00. You can duck from the anonymous kissing bandits that will be flying through the crowd. Dance to Jackie Pop at 8, Yellow Fly at 9, Sputnik Down at 10 and at 11, In the Name of Loaf – really, a Meatloaf tribute band. DJ Orion & DJ Nicholas will be spinning after midnight. There will be vocal performances by Gabrielle of St. Eve, Velocity Chyalld of Vulgaras, and Opera Diva Christine Matovich. Not to mention a visual performance piece by Joshua Goldberg, dancers and more.

What: The Pink Party @ Crash Mansion
When: Saturday, February 12th, 8 PM – onwards
Where: Crash Mansion, 199 Bowery between Spring and Stanton
Cost: $5 in fun or fabulously PINK! $10 in mundane or unromantic!

Our Name is Mud is having an all day Valentine’s Day Tsunami Relief Party, “Art from the Heart” at their Upper West Side shop. For one low price, you’ll have unlimited studio paint time. Children can make heart pendants, have their face painted and enjoy musical performances and sweets. All proceeds are going to Save the Children

What: Our Name is Mud “Art from the Heart” Tsunami Relief Party
When: Sunday, February 13th, 10 AM – 7PM
Where: 506 Amsterdam Avenue, between 821st and 82nd Streets
Cost: $18 per person
Contact: 212-579-5575
Website: http://www.ournameismud.com

I adore cheese. Not only is it good for you, there’s a zillion varieties, and most of them are wonderful any time day or night. Kashkaval Foods is hosting the “For the Love of Wine and Cheese.” Its wine and cheese tasting event, hosted by wine expert Geoffrey Ducroux and cheese expert Pandelaki Andonopulo. The tasting will highlight eight different vintages with cheese from around the world.

What: Wine and cheese tasting event @ Kaskkaval Foods
When: Sunday, February 13th, 6 PM- 8 PM
Where: Kashkaval Foods, 856 9th Avenue, between 55th and 56th Streets
Contact: 212-581-8282
Cost: $30 advance, $40 door
Website: http://www.kashkavalfoods.com/

The West Side Benefit for Tsunami Disaster Victims is on Wednesday, February 16th at the Kama Lounge. There’s an open bar from 7 PM – 9 PM, and a silent auction featuring tickets to Broadway shows, original artwork, sports paraphernalia, gift certificates to local restaurants, wines, designer accessories and more.

What: West Side Benefit for Tsunami Disaster Victims @ Kama Lounge
When: Wednesday, February 16th, 7 PM – on
Where: 380 Columbus Avenue @ 78th Street
Cost: $40 suggested minimum donation (Checks only please)
Forms will be available for donations to be made directly to several
charitable organizations working to help victims of the Tsunami.
RSVP & Info: Assembly Member Scott Stringer’s office 212-873-6368
or email tsunamirelief@scottstringer.com

When was the last time you played Twister? How’d you like to meet Alan Cumming and Jamie Kennedy? You can do both, Monday, February 14th at the Children’s Museum of Manhattan. The Twister contest is inspired by a scene in the upcoming movie, “Son of the Mask” starring both Kennedy and Cumming.

What: Twister Contest @ The Children’s Museum of Manhattan
When: Monday, February 14th, 4 PM
Where: @ CMOM, The Tisch Building, 212 West 83rd Street, between Broadway and Amsterdam
Cost: Price of admission, $8 for children and adults, $5 for seniors, children under 1 year are free.
Website: http://www.cmom.org

You have three days left before Valentine’s Day! Have you gotten your gift yet? Here’s a gift that I’d like to bestow to many men in Manhattan; the name of a good tailor. Why am I saying this? Today I noticed an overabundance of men who were suffering from V.B.P. (very bad pants), T.W.S. (too wide shoulders) or both. Someone needs to grab these men, bonk them over the head with a soft implement repeatedly until they learn that pants need hems. You are supposed to have a “break” at the end of a pant leg, not a puddle. And what is with the over wide shoulders on blazers? The worst public example of this is Bernard Kerik’s blazers. The shoulders on his jackets are wider than the rest of him. The shoulder seam of a blazer or jacket if you will, should match to your natural shoulder. If it doesn’t, the jacket is too big.

If you’re guilty of these fashion faux pas, and wonder why you can’t get a date, no woman in her right mind wants to go out with someone who looks like he’s wearing Herman Munster’s cast-offs. I don’t care if I sound superficial; if a guy can’t be bothered to hem his pants, I can’t help but wonder what else he can’t be bothered to do for himself or another person.

And I’m seeing this during one of the holiest times if the year, Fashion Week! It’s enough to make a fashionista weep.

Speaking of fashion, not only was fall fashion unveiled under the tents, so was a commode. Not just any commode, Kohler’s Purist Hatbox Seat.

It really is ground-breaking in design. The Purist utilizes a very quiet .2 horsepower electric pump that’s enclosed within the toilet bowl. Powerful flushing is provided by 1.6 gallons of water. While the Purist Hat Box looks stream-lined, it was designed using ergonomics and complies with the height requirements of the Americans with Disabilities Act. The Purist Hat Box has Kohler’s own “Comfort Height” comfortable chair height seating that works with a variety of ages and statures. And the seat was designed with “Quiet Close.” The “QC” prevents seat slams, and as the brochure says, “eliminates unnecessary contact with the underside of the seat.” Women instinctually understand that one. I mean, who hasn’t fallen in at one time or another?

If you’re renovating your abode, or building from the ground up, do take a look at this sleek, sexy commode. It comes in white, biscuit, ice grey, almond, sand bar, and thunder grey. To find out more about the seat, please go to http://www.kohler.com/hatbox or call Kohler at 1-800-4-KOHLER.

Petrossian Boutique and Café has a unique Valentine’s day gift. One that will sparkle, shine and make you very memorable. They have produced a limited edition 500 Swarovski crystal encrusted and gold caviar tin.

Petrossian is world renowned for their taste. Their cafes are among the yummiest. Their selection of caviar and other delicacies are a gourmand’s dream come true. If you buy Petrossian, you know you’ll have the best.

They’ve taken their charming logo, and highlighted a sun yellow sky, blue waters, and the amber sails of their ship with matching Swarovski crystals. You can buy the tin by itself for $220, or add some Petrossian caviar to create a once in a lifetime present.

The limited edition caviar tin is available at both Petrossian Boutique and Cafes; 182 W 58th St, or 911 7th Avenue. Call 212-245-2217 for availability.

Makor is offering two very fun events this weekend. Saturday night they’re hosting a “Mix and Match Singles Night.” Make a 15-track music CD or a paper playlist that represents your personality and life. Then listen (or read) someone else’s to see if you match. There’s complementary beer from 8-9 PM, then a screening of John Cusak’s “High Fidelity” movie.

What: Mix & Match Singles Night & movie
When: Saturday, February 12, 8 PM
Where: Makor, 35 West 67th Street (b/w CPW & Columbus)
Cost: $10 w/ mix CD, $15 with paper playlist
Phone: 212-601-1000
Website: http://www.makor.org (Makor is a program of the 92nd St. Y)

Sunday playwrights Ronnie Cohen and Jane Beale are presenting a staged reading of their un-named play. Here’s the synopsis; Dr. Jennifer Darling plans an over-the-top wedding and honeymoon extravaganza. Then The New York Times reveals that the bride is a fraud – her education and professional credentials are total lies! It’s based on a true story.

What: Staged Reading
When: Sunday, February 13th, 7:30 PM
Where: Makor, 35 West 67th Street (b/w CPW & Columbus)
Cost: $10
Phone: 212-601-1000
Website: http://www.makor.org (Makor is a program of the 92nd St. Y)

Sunday afternoon, you can “fais do-do” at Satalla’s Zydeco Valentine’s Dance. C.J. Chenier & the Red Hot Louisiana Band will be performing. They’ve been crowned the heirs to Zydeco throne by Billboard magazine. Don’t know how to zydeco? Lessons are at 1:30 PM.
What: Zydeco Valentine’s Dance @ Satalla
When: Sunday, February 13th, doors open -1PM, dance lesson-1:30 PM, music from 2 – 5:30 PM
Where: Satalla, 37 West 26th Street, between Broadway and 6th Avenue
Cost: $22
Contact: 212-576-1155
Websites: http://www.letszydeco.com, http://www.satalla.com

Sunday, Metropolitan Opera star Rebecca Copley will perform arias, art songs, and standards from her wide repertoire accompanied by pianist John De Maio at the Dahesh Museum. Guests have a choice of a Pre-Concert Brunch, or a Post-Concert Afternoon Tea.

What: Rebecca Copley in concert @ The Dahesh Museum
When: Sunday, February 13, 12 Noon brunch, 2:30 performance
Where: Dahesh Museum, 580 Madison Avenue, between 56th and 57th Streets
Cost: meal and concert $55 per person, concert only $25.00
Call: 212-759-0606 x244 for reservations.
Website: http://www.daheshmuseum.org

Chef and cookbook author, Jennifer Felicia Abadi will explore how the Syrian-Jewish population evolved into a tight-knit community. Following her talk, she will demonstrate how to prepare one of the desserts from her book. Syrian pastries with Arabic coffee & mint tea will be served.

What: Cookbook Author Jennifer Felicia Abadi personal appearance & cooking demonstration
When: Sunday, February 13, 2:30 PM
Where: Museum of Jewish Heritage – A Living Memorial to the Holocaust, 36 Battery Place
Cost: $15.00, you can order online @ http://www.mjhnyc.org
Call: 646-437-4202
Website: http://www.mjhnyc.org

Sales!

Bluefly.com’s store has designer merchandise marked down to $200 or less.
When: Through 3/20 (Mon.-Sat. noon-7PM; Sun. noon-PM).
Where: 102 Wooster St., near Spring St., 917-687-9673.

Nancy & Co. is taking 30 to 75 percent off clothes and accessories from Kooba, Shin Choi, Paul & Joe, and others.
When: Through 2/28 (Mon.-Sat. 10AM-7PM; Sun. noon-6PM).
Where: 1242 Madison Ave., @ 89th St., 212-427-0770.

Armani Casa furniture is up to half off.
When: 1/19-2/13 (Tues.-Sat. 11AM-7PM; Sun. noon-6PM).
Where: 97 Greene St., near Prince St., 212-334-1271.

Rothman’s is slashing prices on Ted Baker, Hugo Boss, Canali, and more by 30 to 70 percent.
When: 1/28-2/13 (Mon.-Sat. 10AM-7PM; Sun. noon-5:30PM).
Where: 200 Park Ave. South @ 17th St., 212-777-7400.

Flight 001 has 25 to 70 percent off travel accessories.
When: 1/21-2/12 (Mon.-Sat. 11AM-8:30PM; Sun. noon-6PM).
Where: 96 Greenwich Ave. @ 12th St., 212-691-1001.

During the winter if you’re daring enough to open your windows; you’ll either be deluged with snow, rain, or a horrible draft. Offices get extra stuffy too. Your nose hurts from smelling stale air, but you can’t very well drag scented candles to work. Leaving anything burning at home when you’re not there is dangerous. You want, no you need to smell something nice instead of gunk all the time.

Here’s a safe alternative that will make any room smell like spring. Stick Scents is the latest trend in aromatherapy. Instead of candles, incense or anything goopy, Stick scents uses porous reeds to diffuse the fragrance into the air. Simply place the reeds into the jar of fragrant oils and voila! You have delightfully delicate aromas tickling your nose instead of stale, stuffy air. Stick Scents come in four blends: Sea Petals – blends of peach, pineapple, citrus, cedar, cyclamen and violet, Green Apple – peach, pear, green apple, musk and berry, English Garden – melon, cyclamen, citrus, jasmine, rose, violet and musk, Morning Dew – honey suckle, musk, jasmine, violet, melon and rose.

Each blend creates a light subtle not overpowering scent. One bottle fragrances any size room. I know, I kept moving mine about my apartment. The scent never overpowered me nor gave me the urge to stick my head out a window.

They’re decorative and safe. You can keep Scent Sticks in your office, at home, or wherever you want a little fragrance. Stick Scents can be purchased at target.com

Von Dutch Originals are known for their cool, hip looks. Throw on a tee, hat, or carry one of their bags; your outfit goes from so-so to hot in seconds.

They have created a tee shirt that everyone needs to buy immediately. It’s the Tsunami Relief Tee for men and women. Why buy it? 100% of the proceeds of the shirt are going to Operation U.S.A. They’re a humanitarian relief organization. One of their arms is a disaster relief program. Members of Operation U.S.A are all ready in the tsunami – devastated regions of Asia. They’re trying to alleviate the hunger and hardship that the survivors are now facing. You can buy you can purchase tee at http://www.vondutch.com to find out about Operation U.S.A, go to their website http://www.opusa.org

To combat winter’s doldrums you need fun! Circle this date on your calendar, January 12th. You’re going to head on over to the 92nd Street Y’s Makor Center to have a blast with John Ottavino. John is a professional make up artist who has worked with numerous celebrities in film, TV, fashion, entertainment and publishing. He and Cindy Crawford were chosen to be the official spokespersons for REVLON’s ColorStay Haircolor. John regularly conducts Beauty Education seminars to professional make up artists at many cosmetic companies including MAC, AVEDA and REVLON. You’ve seen him nationally on the syndicated TV show “Home Delivery” dispensing beauty and make-over advice.

Now you can learn all about the latest trends, where the pros go to buy makeup, make up tricks, cosmetic dos and don’ts and more next Wednesday. If you’ve decided to change your look for the New Year, this is the person to see. His seminar, “Celebrity Makeup Secrets” will fill up fast. To reserve your spot call 212-601-1000 or register online

What: John Ottavino “Celebrity Makeup Secrets” seminar
When: Wednesday, January 12, 7:30 PM – 9:30 PM
Where: 92nd Street Y Makor Center
Steinhardt Building, 25 W. 67th Street
Register: 2121-601-1000 or above URL
Other info: Code: T-MM5NY23-01, Cost $15.00

If this is the year that you’re going to get buffed and toned, why not enter The Discovery Channel’s National Body Challenge. Register online at Discovery Health or one of their participating Discovery stores and you’ll get a free Bally’s Total Fitness membership from January 15th to March 15th. Now this is a sweet deal with no hidden calories! To register or find out more information about the program, go to their website.

If you’ve been feeling craft lately but are at loose ends on what to do, take visit the Craft Student’s League open house. You’ll walk away buzzing with ideas.

What: Craft Student’s League Open House
When: Wednesday January 5th, 5:30 PM – 7:30 PM
Where: 610 Lexington Avenue at 53rd Street
More info: Call 212-735-9732

The Financial Times is sponsoring a tsunami relief event, Thursday, January 6th at Suite 16, from 6 PM – 11 PM. Pearson is matching donations dollar for dollar. Donate $25.00 and you’ll enjoy an open bar, finger foods, music and fun all for a good cause. Bring friends with you!
What: Asia Fundraiser
When: Thursday, January 6, 6 p.m. – 11p.m.
Where: Suite 16, 127 8th Avenue (@ 16th Street)
http://www.worldsbestbars.com/city/new-york/suite-16-new-york.htm
RSVP To: Jolie, Financial Times, Public Relations Office: 212-641-6611

Some of New York’s top chefs, led by Patricia Yeo from Sapa are gathering to prepare a $125 five course, prix fixed dinner at Sapa on January 11th to raise disaster relief funds for Doctors Without Borders.
What: Disaster Relief Fundraising Dinner for Doctors without Borders
When: January 11th
Where: Sapa, 43 W. 24th Street (between Broadway & 6th Avenue)
Reservations: 212-929-1800
Website: http://www.sapanyc.com/

“Flavor of the Week” is Alix Sobler’s views on dating, sex, love and other modern miseries are wrapped up in a funny, witty one person show at The Tank. There are only two shows, January 5th and 6th, so you don’t want to miss the chance to laugh till your face falls off.

What: Flavor of the Week by Alix Sobler @ The Tank
When: Wednesday & Thursday, January 5 & 6 @ 8:00
Where: The Tank Space for Performing & Visual Arts, 432 West 42nd Street between 9th & 10th Aves
Phone: 212-563-6269
Cost: $10.00, reserve your seat through smarttix.com
website: http://www.TheTankNYC.org

The AlterEgos are holding a benefit concert Thursday, January 6th. Tickets are only $10 and all proceeds are going to disaster relief funds. The band is playing from 8PM – 9 PM, followed by Chillum, Game Rebellion and Dr. Israel. Listen to the AlterEgos at http://www.checktheegos.com

What: Alter Egos Benefit Show at Crash Mansion
Where:199 Bowery at Spring Street
When: January 6, 8pm
Cost:$10
http://crashmansion.com/

Here are some more disaster relief organizations that can use your donations:

Doctors Without Borders (http://www.doctorswithoutborders.org)
International Medical Corps (http://www.imcworldwide.org)

NetAid (http://www.netaid.org), will use donations for
emergency services and counseling and for rebuilding schoolhouses in Southern India.

Lanka Academic Network (http://www.theacademic.org), a Sri Lankan
nonprofit, has a team of local university volunteers assisting in reconstruction. They also have a website where people can post information about missing loved ones.

USAID (http://www.usaid.gov/locations/asia_near_east/tsunami) can direct donations of bulk commodities or volunteers with special disaster relief skills.

The SEA-EAT bloggers (http://tsunamihelp.blogspot.com)
compiling exhaustive information (helplines, charities, photos, and statistics).

I finally got to watch the Project Runway episode I missed. It was last week’s – Wendy goes ballistic and Robert gets eliminated (sorry Chelsea). I do realize that Robert’s outfit wasn’t perfect, but Wendy’s was the worst design. It was dowdy and looked almost like what they were already wearing. There wasn’t any innovation and who puts pleats on the sides of pants? Eeeuw! Yet, they still didn’t eliminate her. Could it be that the producers are afraid of her? I mean she is just a tad bit unbalanced. Jay even called her a “cockroach.”

And if you didn’t know it’s Fashion Week. So many people are of running around, going crazy and making snarky comments. What’s the word on fall’s designs? Bright colors, tons of green everywhere in every hue, and poufy skirts. POUFY SKIRTS??! Are they nuts? No one can wear a pouf well unless they’re seven feet tall and weigh six pounds. Can anyone tell me why a normal sized woman wants to look larger around the waist and hips? Please, they’re going to sell you the idea that if you wear a tight-fitting or close to the body top above the pouf, you’ll look slim and adorable. No, you won’t, you’ll look like a tacky lampshade from the 50′s.

It’s enough to make you want to sew. I did try once, but I kept breaking all the machines in Home EC. My teacher almost had a meltdown over that. Do you think she even tossed the thought around her brain about letting me near a stove? This is why I do take-a-way really well.

If Project Runway or Fashion Week has given you the creative urge, check out Sheila Walker Studio. They have fun workshops or labs, (three hours $125) and you can create your own string bikini, make your own rock star tees or learn “survival sewing.” There are six-week workshops or labs where you can focus on creating your own wardrobe. If you’re all thumbs, don’t despair! They also have private instruction. Sheila Walker Studio, 106 Duane St., 2nd Fl. (Church St. & Broadway) TriBeCa, 212-732-8955, http://www.sheilawalkerstudio.com

Kanvas is hosting a wine tasting class featuring California wines this Wednesday, February 9. You’ve won’t get swoofy, because they are serving Hor d’oeuvres.
What: California Wine Tasting Party @ Kanvas
When: Wednesday, February 9, 6 PM – 9PM
Where: Kanvas, 219 9th Avenue @ 23rd Street
RSVP: 212-727-2616
Cost: $35 in advance, $40 at the door

Have you ever wondered what goes in the restaurant’s kitchen? You can find out by enjoying a Kitchen Dinner at the Waldorf. Your meal starts off with champagne and Hors d’oeuvres. You’ll meet and mingle with Chef Doherty and his staff. A five course meal, with a separate wine for each course follows the meet and greet. The dinners are conducted February 9th, 18th, March 11th, and 30th. The cost is $150 per person (tax and tip not included). This is more than an amazing meal, it’s an incredible event. For more information, please call 212-872-1275

If you prefer sushi, then you’ll love “Sip Sake, Make Maki” at Sushi Samba. Executive Chef Koji Kagawa and sommelier Paul Tanguay will host a sake tasting, followed by a do-it, then eat-it yourself sushi session. The event is held the last Monday of each month. You’ll be sipping and cutting on the rooftop of the restaurant.

What: Sip Sake Eat Make @ Sushi Samba 7
When: February 28th, March 28, 7- 9 PM
Where: Sushi Samba 7, 87 Seventh Avenue South
RSVP: 212-691-7885 (space is limited)
Cost: $60 per person
Website: http://www.sushisamba.com

Don’t forget that Jean-Claude and Christo’s The Gates will be unfurling in Central Park, Wednesday, February 12, weather permitting. This event has been over 26 years in the making. The Gates consists of 7,500 saffron-colored vinyl gates (each 16 feet in height and hung with saffron fabric panels) placed at 12-foot intervals over 23 miles of pedestrian walkways that lace the Park. It will end on the 27th, so do get a chance to view it before it becomes part of the park and city’s history. For a bird’s eye view, the Metropolitan Museum of Art is opening the Roof Garden to visitors during the duration of the exhibit. For more details on The Gates visit http://www.christojeanneclaude.net and http://www.metmuseum.org.

Chinatown Lunar New Year Firecracker Ceremony is this Wednesday. Gung hoy fat choy! The first pyrotechnics display happens at noon at Mott St. and Bayard at noon. The second starts at 2pm at Market St. and E. Broadway. From 11am-5pm at both locations, stages will feature all-day cultural performances by singers and dancers. Animal-themed dance troupes will march in main streets. Free! 212-619-4785 http://www.explorechinatown.com/

Just in time for Valentine’s Day, Cupid’s helpers at Bacchus Wines offer you the opportunity to sample a fabulous selection of champagne, cava, prosecco and sparkling wine. And what Valentine’s fete would be complete without chocolate? Godiva Chocolatier will serve up some delicious sweets. Each participant will receive a free beautiful Riedel Crystal Vinum Extreme Champagne flute valued at $30.

What: Bacchus WineTastings
When: Wednesday, February 9, at 6pm. 7:30pm, and 9pm.
Where: Bacchus Wines, 2056 Broadway, between 70th and 71 street
RSVP: 212-875-1200
Website: http://www.bacchusnyc.com/
Cost: $40 per person’

The New York Metro Vocal Arts Ensemble presents a delicious night of drinking songs. The audience will be able to sip cocktails while enjoying drinking songs including: Bizet’s “Toreador Song” Kurt Weill’s “The Alabama Song” and Monty Python’s “The Philosopher’s Drinking Song.”

What: The New York Metro Vocal Arts Ensemble Concert
When: Wednesday, February 9, 7 PM
Where: Danny’s Skylight Room, 346 W. 46th Street
RSVP: Call 212-265-8130 or 212-265-8133 for reservations.
Cost: Tickets are $15 with a $10 food and drink minimum.

Some yummy sales to keep your closet full:

Chuckies’ footwear and handbags from Jimmy Choo, Giuseppe Zanotti, and D&G is reduced by 65 percent.
When: 2/15-2/28 (Mon.-Fri. 10:45am-7:45pm; Sat. 10:45am-7:30pm; Sun. 12:30-7pm).
Where: 1073 Third Ave., nr. 63rd St., 212-593-9898.

Johnson’s clothing and accessories are marked down by 10 to 75 percent.
When: 2/14-3/1 (Mon.-Fri. 1-7pm; Sat. 12:30-8pm; Sun. noon-6pm).
Where: 179 Orchard St., nr. Houston St., 646-602-8668.

At Joel Name, Chanel, Gucci, and Prada eyewear is discounted by 20 to 50 percent.
When: 2/12-2/26 (call for store hours).
Where: 65 W. Houston St., at Wooster St., 212-777-5888; 448 W. Broadway, at Prince St., 212-260-1701.

Find Outlet’s semi-annual warehouse sale features Imitation of Christ (pants are $48 to $63), Paul & Joe, Samantha Treacy, and other hip labels.
When: 2/10-2/13 (noon-7pm).
Where: 361 W. 17th St., nr. Ninth Ave., 212-243-3177.

La Petits Chapelais’s French kids’ designs start at $1 for hats and run to $39 for dresses.
When: 2/10-2/12 (11am-7pm).
Where: 142 Sullivan St., nr. Houston St., 212-505-1927.

Morgenthal Frederics is slashing prices on eyewear – Oliver Peoples, Paul Smith, and the house label are from $50.
When: 2/14-2/20 (Mon.-Fri. 10am-7pm; Sat. 11am-7pm; Sun. noon-6pm).
Where: 399 W. Broadway, at Spring St., 212-966-0099.

Nicole Miller is closing her SOHO shop. 50% to 90% off sportswear, cocktail gowns, and evening apparel.
When: Through 2/14 (Mon.-Sat. 11am-7pm; Sun. noon-6pm).
Where: 134 Prince St., near Wooster St., 212-343-1362.

Pleats Please Issey Miyake is taking half off select merchandise; belted trench coats were $555, but are now $278 at the sale.
When: Through 2/13 (Mon.-Sat. 11am-7pm; Sun. noon-6pm).
Where: 128 Wooster St., near Prince St., 212-226-3600.

Ghost is having a huuuuge sale, to 70 percent off.
When: Through 3/1 (Mon.-Sat. 11am-7pm; Sun. noon-6pm).
Where: 28 Bond St., near Bowery, 646-602-2891.

Big Drop 50 to 80 percent off Rebecca Taylor, Development, Ya-Ya, and others (from $19).
When: Through 2/12 (Mon.-Sat. 11am-8pm; Sun. noon-7pm).
Where: 1325 Third Ave., nr. 75th St. 212-472-3200.

Valcucine’s contemporary, Italianate kitchens (now $30,000) and furniture (now $1,200) are on sale.
When: Through 3/1 (Mon.-Fri. 11am-6:30pm; Sat. 11am-7pm).
Where: 66 Crosby St., nr. Spring St., 212-253-5969.

Gym Source treadmills, elliptical machines, stationary bikes, and more for up to half off.
When: Through 2/28 (Mon.-Fri. 9am-6pm; Sat. 10am-6pm; Sun. noon-5pm).
Where: 40 E. 52nd St., nr. Madison Ave., 212-688-4222.

Liora Manné’s colorful home and fashion accessories are up to 50 percent off.
When: 2/7-2/13 (Mon.-Sat. 11am-7pm; Sun. noon-6pm).
Where: 91 Grand St., nr. Greene St., 212-965-0302.

Ocean View Optical’s frames from Alain Mikli, Calvin Klein, Theo, and others are discounted by 50 to 75 percent.
When: Through 2/12 (Mon.-Fri. 11am-7pm; Sat. and Sun. noon-5pm).
Where: 40 Union Square East, nr. 16th St., 212-477-9515.

Did you have a nice weekend? I met up with a friend at the Wet Bar inside the W on Lex and 39th. It’s dark, cozy and the bartenders are dishy. Check it out the next time you want to catch up with someone. They have the obligatory booths and barstools, but couches, chairs and loveseats are scattered around, giving off a nice, relaxed lounge vibe where you can natter on for hours. The air is gently perfumed by the dozens of lit candles; the scent is fresh and very subtle.

Did you know that make up artist Kevyn Aucoin was born February 14, 1962? He was a Valentine’s baby! And in many ways he played Cupid throughout his life. Maybe that’s why Kevyn Aucoin Beauty has delightful doings for Valentine’s Day.

The company is releasing a special limited edition, “Gift of Love Cards.” They’re sold in a set of five and each card has contains a different quote about love and life from Kevyn. Here’s two of them; “It is by celebrating the differences in others that we can begin to accept our own individuality.” “For me beauty is synonymous with uniqueness.”

It’s a wonderful way to show the special people in your life that you do care for them. Would you like a gift for you? Well, get yourself over to Henri Bendel because Kevyn Aucoin Beauty will have their make up team out to show you how to be the perfect Valentine. If you purchase the “Gift of Love Cards” (only $15.00) your beauty makeover is free. This event is going on from February 12- 14.

Henri Bendel is located at 712 Fifth Ave, call (212) 247-1100 to make your appointment. You can also purchase the cards at Pir Cosmetics or at http://www.kevynaucoin.com

Other wonderful news for you is that Completely Bare is having a 20% off sale on their completely bare or relax waxes for the entire month of February! If you’ve wanted to wax, but were afraid of the pain, you should try the relax wax. For the relax wax, they use LMX-4, a topical cream that contains the anesthetic Litocaine. So no more tears when you get sensitive areas waxed.

Completely Bare also offers tanning, facials, microdermabrasion and more. Complete Bare’s three Manhattan locations are: Completely Bare uptown, 764 Madison Ave @ 66th Street, Suite 3R, (212) 717-9300, Completely Bare Downtown, 103 Fifth Avenue @17th Street, 4th floor, (212) 366-6060, and Completely Bare @ Barneys NY, Madison and 61st Street, (212) 833-2566. To learn more about Completely Bare, please go to their website, http://www.completelybare.com

The Tasters Guild, http://www.tastersguild.com is celebrating the Chinese New Year with a 10 course wine friendly menu. The wines have been selected to complement each course, but exact wines have not yet been confirmed. The event will be held, Wednesday, February 9 at the Golden Unicorn Restaurant in Chinatown. Here’s the menu for the event: Appetizer -Deep Fried Spring Roll, Steamed Spring Dumpling, Steamed Vegetable Dumpling, Australian Riesling, Soup House Special Seafood Soup, Dr Konstantin Frank Salmon Run Johannesburg Riesling, Entrée Peking Roasted Duck, Robert Mondavi Woodbridge Syrah 2000, Sautéed Sliced Chicken & Calamari with Vegetable, Robert Mondavi Woodbridge Chardonnay 2002, Braised Scallops with Black Mushroom, Stir Fried Lobster with Ginger and Scallions, Fetzer Merlot 2001, Salt Baked Grouper Cubes with Chili, Valckenberg Gewurztraminer 2003, Young Chow Fried Rice, Singapore Style Mai Fun, Dessert Seasonal Fresh Fruit Platter, Agros Muscat of Patras of Rio 2002, Coffee or tea.

What: Taster Guild’s Chinese New Year Dinner – Year of the Rooster
When: Date: Wednesday February 9, 6 PM
Where: Golden Unicorn Restaurant, 18 E. Broadway 3rd fl (Catherine
St) 212-941-0911
Cost: Members: $75.00, Non-Members: $85.00
More information: http://www.tastersguildny.com/comingevents.shtml

I adore champers, maybe it’s the bubbles, or maybe it’s that it looks like liquid sunshine, but it’s one of my favorite libations. If you’re like me, then you’ll love the Cosmo Party that’s going on 10th; free champagne! YUM! The party is for young professionals ages 21-45 at Le 26. It’s a pre-valentine singles mixer with a Laurent Perrier Champagne open bar and Hors d’oeuvres from 7 -8 PM. At 9, there’s a raffle and you could win a romantic dinner for two, a shiatsu massage class from the Ohashi Institute or any of the other eight great prizes. Interested? Then go to their site and sign up.

And here’s one more party to write on your calendar. Gemini and Scorpio, the dating gurus www.geminiandscorpio.com are taking over the Union Bar, February 14th for a, “Annual Singles and Birthday Bash: Get Off…Line III: Say Cheese (and Chocolate)!” fondue party. Over 70+ New Yorkers will mingle, drip cheese and chocolate on each other, listen to DJ’s spin music, play a game, win a prize and have fun. Project Jenny and Project Jan will be spinning. And all this fun is only $5.00

To RSVP, go to http://www.geminiandscorpio.com/events.html. Now, if you’re already on their mailing list, you’ll get a goodie bag when you arrive, while supplies last.

What: GeminiandScorpio.com Fondue Party
When: Monday, February 14th, 7 PM
Where: Union Bar, 204 Park Avenue South, between 17th & 18th Streets, www.unionbar.com
Cost: $5.00
RSVP: http://www.geminiandscorpio.com/events.html

I had my first experience with caviar at the age of eight. Mom and I were shopping up and down the Miracle Mile (for non-Long Islandites, it’s a shopping area in Manhasset), we had worked up quite an appetite. Shopping is very hard work. Mom and I looked at each other and decided to get a snack. Inside the restaurant, I looked over the menu, when I noticed listed under tea sandwiches; “caviar sandwich.” I looked at mom, “Mommy, what’s caviar?”

Mom looked over her menu at me and smiled, “Honey, you don’t want that. It’s very salty and crunchy. You won’t like it.”

The waitress overheard our conversation, and smilingly offered to give me one just to taste. It came on a tiny plate atop a paper doily. The sandwich was cut on the diagonal, and the bread was more like a hard cracker than the soft bread an eight year old was used to handling. I took a bite. Crunch, crunch, crunch. The saltiness overwhelmed my taste buds and I must have made quite a face because the waitress and my mom couldn’t stop laughing. It took me awhile to get over the experience.

And now I found something with caviar that’s delicious and zero calories. You don’t eat it, you wear it.

Did you know that caviar is fantastic for your skin? It contains 23 to 26% protein and essential amino acids; is high in vitamins – like A (retinol), B, E, D, B2 and B6, and is a great source of Marine DNA. This means that caviar has very strong hydrating and conditioning properties. The Marine DNA, protein and essential amino acids stimulate cell regeneration.

The Signature Caviar Line created by Kerstin Florian International not only contains Seruga Caviar from the Caspian Sea; it also has Co-Enzyme A, a healing anti-oxidant, caffeine as a toning anti-oxidant and the Chinese herb Chai Hu (Bupleurum Extract). In other words, these products are the ultimate in an anti-aging skin regimen.

I tried the Caviar Eye Creme, the Caviar Age-Defense, The Caviar Night Creme and the Caviar Firming Body Complex for a period of time. The products have a very pleasant, light scent and they absorbed very quickly into my dry winter skin.

The eye creme comes in a pump, this is a wonderful idea. You get a small measured dose on your finger. No longer will you have to fight to put the excess creme back into the tub. The eye creme is feather light, neither greasy nor heavy. It banishes dark circles under the eyes, minimizes fine lines, puffiness and brightens. The caviar is aided with caffeine and green tea extract.

The Caviar Age-Defense very quickly became a favorite part of my morning regimen. Why? It sinks into your skin immediately. No more long waits until you can safely apply your base. It made my skin feel smoother and supple. Applying base was a breeze. Besides caviar, this also contains rose flower oil, Co-enzyme A and Chai Hu (firming agent). The combination of the caviar, firming agents and anti-aging ingredients reduce fine lines and really does make your skin smooth and very soft.

After a shower, the Caviar Firming Body Complex is a real treat, It feels luxurious, slightly sinful and your body will love you for it. It also contains anti-aging ingredients and vitamins, definitely skin food.

The Night Creme is rich, thick, but seeps into your pores as quickly as the Age-Defense. Not only does it contain caviar, it also contains green tea, shea butter and seaweed. The first few times I tried it, my skin tingled a bit, but I continued, after a day or two that stopped.

How were the results of my road testing? Recently I had a facial and the aesthetician remarked on how nice my skin looked and felt. This was after using it a little over a week.

I give high marks to this line. It’s not heavily perfumed, lightweight, and absorbs easily into your skin. I’ve only used it for a little over two weeks; but my skin feels soft and looks healthy. Unlike some other moisturizers, there isn’t any leftover “greasiness” or heaviness on your skin. The day and night cremes came with little scoop applicators, I couldn’t deal with those. Too tiny for me, the cremes were easier (for me) to manipulate by hand.

Kerstin Florin International has been in business for over 40 years. Their other product lines include: Spa Face, Spa Body, Spa Sun, and a complete line of skin care for men. Their products and services (facials, body and foot treatments) can be found at exclusive spas worldwide. Some of the spas are; The Fairmont Plaza in NYV, W Hotel in Times Square, Willow Stream Spas at the Fairmont, various Fairmont resorts, Boca Raton Resort and Club and many more.

Kerstinflorian.com lists the spas were you can find this wonderful line and product information. Call 888-kerstin to find an affiliated spa near you.

Bendel’s is having on of their fabulous “Girls’ Nites” Thursday, February 10. The theme is; “Lessons in Love, Lipstick & Lingerie.” Complementary cocktails, hors d’oeuvres and fun shopping on “La Lingerie” on 3, and you’ll get a chance to meet Samantha Daniels, the founder of Samantha’s table, an introduction service and the real-life inspiration for the show “Miss Match” starring Alicia Silverstone. She’s the author of the new urban love story Matchbook: The Diary of A Modern-Day Matchmaker (Simon & Schuster, 2005). Not only will she be signing copies of her book, she’ll reveals secrets of the trade, real-life dating advice, and will share her own adventures in singledom.

You’ll also get a chance to meet Maureen Kelly, the beauty expert, creative genius and founder of Tarte Cosmetics. She and her team will demonstrate the hottest looks for Valentine’s Day. You’ll also learn tips for every day and special occasion make up.

Each guest will receive a deluxe gift bag, and will be entered to win a Tarte cosmetics beauty basket and a signed copy of Samantha’s book.

Space is limited so call today for your reservation.

What: Bendel’s Girls’ Nites Presents Samantha Daniels of Samantha’s Table and Maureen Kelly of Tarte Cosmetics fun lingerie shopping, makeovers and mingling.
When: Thursday, February 10, 6 PM – 8 PM
Where: Henri Bendel, 712 5th Avenue @56th Street
Cost: $25 reservation fee, redeemable towards purchase of lingerie or TARTE Cosmetics
RSVP: 212-904-7951

There’s a certain romance about vintage clothing and antiques. Once look and you daydream about the past.

You can indulge in your fantasies this weekend at The New York Fashion & Antique Textile Show and Sale at the New Yorker Hotel. You’ll find vintage designer clothing and period clothing. Antique textiles, accessories, shoes and jewelry will abound the booths too. While you’re there visit Sunny Chapman Design in Booth GB3 in the Grand Ballroom. She’s got vintage Geoffrey Beene, Bonnie Cashin and other designers, flapper dress, vintage lingerie, accessories and other goodies to numerous to mention.

What: The New York Fashion & Vintage Textile Show and Sale
When: Friday, February 4,11AM – 7 PM, Saturday, February 5,11AM – 6PM
Where: New Yorker Hotel, 34th Street & 8th Avenue
Cost: $20 admission

Speaking of romance, being touched by someone you love is a heavenly experience. Just holding hands can make your heart flutter. Dorit Baxter Day Spa and Petals and Wine have teamed up to create an exclusive treatment; The Hands On Massage.

The Hands On Massage shows you how you and your partner can pamper each other with sensual massages. You’ll learn massage techniques that you can use at home again and again. This package includes a 90-minute couple’s massage, complete with hands-on instructions guided by a massage therapist at Dorit Baxter Spa. Take home a large gift basket with everything you need to continue massaging each other long past Valentine’s Day.

The Dorit Baxter is one of the city’s premier full service spas. Petals & Wine is run by Mor Soued and Erika Rychik. They plan wedding nights, proposals, anniversaries and extra-special dates. They’re experts on how to create a spectacular event or memorable evening. Together these two companies will show you the joys of the power of touch.

To schedule a Hands On Massage, which retails for $450, log onto http://www.petalsandwine.com and go to their New Experience page, or call 212-579-2284

If you’ve been thinking about volunteering, but not sure which non-profit you’d like to join, you might want to look into Share Your Heart NYC. It’s the first Volunteer Expo featuring sixty small to medium-sized Manhattan-based non-profit organizations serving a broad spectrum of diverse and compelling interests, social services and the arts, providing a truly unique opportunity for New Yorkers to learn how they may become more involved with their community.

What: Share Your Heart NY- Volunteer Expo
When: Thursday, Feb. 10 – Saturday, Feb. 12, Thursday and Friday’s hours are 10AM – 7 PM, Saturday’s is10AM – 4 Pm and are Family Day. There will be kid-friendly activities
Where: Grand Central Terminal, Vanderbilt Hall, 15 Vanderbilt Ave. New York, NY
Contact: (212) 340-2210

Pre-Valentines Event at the Guggenheim! Art Tour & Champagne Tasting
ARTDATE and Cosmo Party are joining forces to create a special Pre-Valentine’s event: a tour of the Aztec Empire exhibit at the Guggenheim Museum followed by a champagne tasting at Flute. The group will meet at the entrance of the Guggenheim Museum (Fifth Avenue at 88th Street) at 6:30pm sharp. The tour will last approximately 1 1/2 hours, led by Natasha Schlesinger, an independent art historian and art consultant who has been working at Christie’s Auction House for many years. Then, it’s off to Flute for an exclusive champagne tasting at this Art Deco-inspired lounge located where the notorious speakeasy Club Intime once operated.

What: Art Date at the Guggenheim
When: Friday 11th February, from 6:30 PM
Where: Flute,54th & Broadway, New York City
Who: Singles & Art Lovers, ages 25- 45
RSVP: http://www.cosmoparty.com/signup/index.php?code=&id_soiree=473
For more information contact the host: Natasha & Jerome

The Tank is presenting “Video as an Instrument” tonight. The opening of their latest gallery show opening is today, from 7-10pm and running through February 17th. This will be a show of single channel video works. A portion of the cover will go towards tsunami relief efforts.

What: Video as an Instrument – Opening Reception
When: Friday, February 4th – 7-10pm FREE with performances at 10pm ($7) from Bmbaclaat! Madame Chao
Where: The Tank – 432 W 42nd Street btw 9th and 10th aves
http://www.thetanknyc.or/spaceworks
For more info about the artists and performers please visit http://jeremyslater.net/vaai/

So you love accessories. When you’re in Bloomies, do you have to fight the urge to grab every bag that tickles your fancy, grab someone else’s charge card, the run out the door screaming in glee? Have you stood at your favorite designer’s shop staring with naked lust at his latest bag? Do you have fantasies of having a Louella Bartley bag in every color?

I just found a website that will allow you to have the bag of your dreams, every bag of your dreams for just pennies! Bag Borrow or Steal will fulfill all your fashionista cravings. For a small monthly fee, you can borrow a handbag from the virtual closet for a week, a month or even a year. BBOS has three levels of membership – trendsetter, diva or princess. Each level has tons of bags to choose from, so it’s hard to make a decision, but loads of fun to “window shop.”

For a trendsetter membership, you’d pay $19.95 a month and have access to bags from Nine West, Charles David, Dooney & Bourke, Lulu Guiness, BCBG Girls and other designers. The Princess membership costs $49.95, and you can borrow a Moschino, Lorelei, Tano, Christopher Kon, Coach, Kate Spade bag. There are other designers in that group too. So, you’re a Diva? Your membership is $99.95, and you can borrow bags from designers like Isabella Fiore, Cole Haan, Prada, Juicy Couture and more. They also have “deluxe” memberships for all three levels. The “deluxe” allows you to borrow two bags instead of one at a time. Did I mention they have gift certificates?

All the bags are originals, not duplicates, and are in pristine condition. If you fall madly in love with your borrowed bag, don’t despair, you can purchase it. Bags are in and out in less than a season. As an investment, it makes more sense to have a membership, rotate your bags whenever you want, than to give your landlord a really bad excuse for why the rent is late. Think of Bag Borrow or Steal as a money market fund, for a small investment, you get a season or three of interchangeable delights.

For this item, you’ll need a pair of scissors to cut out the picture and leave it where your sweetie can “accidentally” pick it up.

Aren’t these earrings divine? They’re the work of Cathy Waterman. These two styles, “Love” and “Daisy” can be found at Barneys. And you know they would look great on you.

They’d probably look great mixed with one the fashions that you’ll see when the Asia Society Present: BURN IT UP: Breakout Asian American Designers in Fashion this Friday, February 4th.

Full Frontal Fashion’s Christina Ha will be emceeing this event. There will live performances, behind the scene interviews, a fashion show and installations of photography, video and performance art. New York’s hottest Asian American designers will be participating in the event. The designers are; Maki Doherty-Ryoke for Susan Cianciolo Studio; Chrishabana, one of GenArt’s Fresh Faces of Fashion last season for accessories; Eugenia Kim, well known accessory, hat and shoes designer; Siri Kuptamethee of Indigo People; Mary Ping, this season’s Ecco Domani Foundation Winner; Tammy Tiranasar and Jean Yu.

Burn It Up gives you a unique opportunity to find what inspires these artists and see their work.

What: Asia Society Presents Burn It Up
When: Friday, February 4th, 6 PM- 9:00 PM
Where: Asia Society and Museum, 725 Park Avenue, New York Cost
Cost: $12 members; $15 nonmembers; $7 student
Phone: 212-517-ASIA
Website: http://www.asiasociety.org/pressroom/rel-burnitup.html

Beauty Tips- I’m going to close out today’s column with some beauty tips I’ve picked up for you. Skyy Hadley of As U Wish Nail Spa recommends taking Vitamin E to help your nails grow and stay healthy. I’ve found that Oil of Olay Daily Facials Express wet cleansing cloths is terrific for taking even the most stubborn make up off your face. They’re pre-moistened and are in a re-sealable bag that you can toss in any case and take anywhere. I’m also enjoying their Daily Facials Intensive deep cleaning clay mask. Not that I like having a blue face, but it’s gentle on my sensitive skin and does a great job of whisking impurities away. For more information on those products go to http://www.oilofolay.com

It looks like we’re slowly inching our way into spring, after all Tuesday was a balmy 40 degrees! Today is Groundhog Day, and we’ll find out if the critter pokes his head out of his hole, and we’ll learn if spring will be here sooner than later.

Whether or not we’ll have an early spring, I do news for you that will definitely brighten up your day.

Ouidad Salon- The Curl Experts is offering a free deep conditioning treatment, valued at $90 and up depending upon your hair, for the entire month of February when you get your curls cut at the salon.

Yup! The deep conditioning treatment will make your hair healthy, happy and look fantastic. The cold temps outside combined with the weird dry heat in many buildings can damage your hair. The deep conditioning treatment will rescue you hair from damage and make it look like curly ribbons. Based on Ouidad’s philosophy that “like your body, your hair needs food too” Ouidad’s Deep Treatment is a concentrated, deep conditioning formula that contains 21 amino acids, sulfur, wheat and soy proteins. It reconnects the molecular layer of the hair, which is where the condition and color are found. This makes the color look richer and shinier, as light reflects off the newly perfected molecular layer. Did I mention it smells divine?

Ouidad is offering a 2oz. Deep Treatment as a free gift with purchase at http://www.ouidad.com

The Ouidad Salon and Education Center is located at 37 West 57th Street, 4th floor. To make an appointment, or for more information call, (212)-888-3288. To find out more about Ouidad, her products and affiliated salons, or to learn about her incredible patented “carving and slicing” hair cutting technique (my curls have never looked so good), visit her website, http://www.ouidad.com. Your hair will love you for it.

The Pussycat Dolls is a troupe of sexy, sassy, performers who combine old fashioned burlesque with revved up song and dance. They’ve been called, “L.A.’s hottest cabaret ticket of the year” by People magazine. The troupe based in California, has toured internationally to rave reviews. The troupe is choreographed by Robin Antin, and led by Carmen Elektra. It boasts Charlize Theron, Scarlett Johansson, Gwen Stefani and Christina Applegate among their many star guest performers.

Stila creator Jeanine Lobel met some of the Dolls while working on the set of “Charlie’s Angels 2.” She realized that the Stila Girl and the Pussycat Doll had many of the same attributes. Both are positive, sassy, and have their own style. They’re feminine, flirty, and self-confident. In a tribute to the Dolls, Stila has created a cosmetic limited edition set, the Stila Pussycat Dolls Collection.

The collection is pink based, as befitting a Doll, but the colors work with every complexion. Since I had gotten the collection ahead of the pack, I road tested it on my poor friends. No matter their skin tone, I made try them on the kit and the results were fantastic. Everyone looked great.

The kit is comprised of three eye shadows (white, black, and purple) and one pink blush. The shadows are incredibly versatile. Looking for a subtle look? The use the white shadow (it’s very sheer) from lid to brow and line your eyes with a pencil. You can combine the purple and white for a great daytime look and for some night time punch, add the black shadow. Since all the shadows are sheer, you determine how intense you want the color by how much you apply.

The blush is a sheer pink, called cozy, that gives your face a nice glow. I’m a very fair olive and it worked great on my skin tone.

Oh the glazes! I love the twisty thing on top that gives you the exact amount you need for your lips. There are two; amaretto and peppermint. Both are sheer and taste exactly like their names. They’re great on their own or over a lipstick.

There are also two lipsticks; pussycat nude and pussycat pink. As I said before they work with every skin tone. They can be used not only for your winter color wardrobe, but will work well with spring and summer colors too.

This Friday, there’s a special Stila Pussycat Dolls event at the Sephora Fifth avenue store. Come and meet the Dolls, get a free Pussycat Dolls DVD, try on the new collection with the help of Stila’s pro make up artists and have fun. Due to the exclusivity of the event, you must make an appointment for a make up application. It’s one DVD per person, while supplies last. appointments are required. One DVD per person while supplies last.

What: Stila and the Pussycat Dolls Personal appearance and make up application by Stila Pro make up artists
When: Friday, February 4th, Make up applications are from 12 – 7 PM,
Pussy Cat Dolls 3-6 PM
Where: Sephora 5th Avenue, 597 5th Avenue, New York, NY 10017.
Reservations: (212) 980-6534.

You can find the collection exclusively at Sephora, http://www.sephora.com, Stila stores and http://www.stilacosmetics.com

Since it is getting warmer, here are some things for you to do around town.

Winter Restaurant Week is ending February 4th. Lunch is only $20.12 and dinner is only $35.00 at participating restaurants citywide. Go to http://www.opentable.com for the complete list of participating restaurants and make online reservations.

Tax Free Week is on until February 6th. Retail items under $110 are tax free. Isn’t this a good excuse to go shopping?

Grab your dancing shoes, Joe Battaglia and his 18 piece NY Big Band will be performing Tonight from 8PM – 11:30 PM at The Star Club, 246 Columbus Avenue (between 71st & 72nd Streets). $10 admission

What: Big Band sounds with Joe Battaglia
When: Wednesday, February 2, 8-11:30 PM
Where: The Star Club, 246 Columbus Ave., (bet. 71st & 72nd Streets)
Price: $10
Contact: (Star Club) 212-579-4040
Website: http://www.nybigband.com

On the first Thursday evening of every month, the Dahesh Museum of Art is free from 6-9pm. Their new exhibit “First Seen: Photographs of the World’s People (1840-1880)” features 250 photographic portraits from the dawn of the modern era. To help put the exhibition in context; Dr. Kathleen Stewart Howe will present a lecture at 6:30 pm that examines key images in the exhibition. After satisfying your artistic appetite, head upstairs to Café Opaline for a delicious pot of perfectly brewed Chai tea and other delicious goodies.

What: Dahesh Museum First Free Thursday of the Month
When: Thursday, February 3, 6- 9 PM
Where: 580 Madison Avenue (bet. 56th and 57th Street)
Contact: 212-759-0606
Website: http://www.daheshmuseum.org

Forget those gaudy drugstore displays! The Merchant House Museum presents an exhibit of 19th century ornate and extravagant paper lace valentine cards. Learn the origins of this most romantic of holidays. $6 admission. Valentines on display through March 7.

What: Antique Valentines at the Merchant’s House Museum,
When: Thursday, February 3 – Through Wednesday, March 7,
Where: 29 East Fourth Street.
Contact: 212-777-1089
Website: http://www.merchantshouse.com

The New York Times called AfroMantra “one of the foremost Latin Jazz bands in the New York City area.” The group combines rich harmonies and jazz elements with the powerful rhythms and flavors of North and Latin America. Hear for yourself at Satalla, 8pm. The cover is $12 and one-drink minimum.

What: AfroMantra – Latin Jazz @ Satalla
When: Thursday, February 3, 8 PM
Where: 37 West 26th Street (bet. 6th and Bway)
Contact (Satalla) 212-576-1155.
Websites: http://www.satalla.com To learn more about the band, visit http://www.afromantra.com.

Wear red this Friday. Why? Because Friday is the American Heart Association’s National Wear Red for Women’s Day. Red is the symbol for women and heart disease. Go red for women; to take charge of their health, to bring awareness about heart diseases’ devastating toll on women’s health, to remind women to lead stronger, healthier lives. Many national monuments will be bathed in a red light and some daytime shows, like Passions and General Hospital’s cast will be wearing the American Heart Association Red Dress Pin.

If you’d like to wear the pin your self, call the American Heart Association at 1-888-MY-Heart or visit their website, http://www.americanheart.org

Surfing on the net I found this tee shirt and couldn’t stop laughing. It’s really the perfect shirt for those days when everything goes wrong.

Wear it with sleep shorts, wear it when you have to deal with the dry cleaners who yet again ruined your favorite shirt, or wear it when you have to deal with the cable guy. It also makes a great gag gift.

You can find the shirt at http://www.cafepress.com/isazoe.17310179

After promising forays into the perfume business by carmakers such as Ferrari, Jaguar and Corvette, Hummer has thrown its sizeable hat in the mix and hopes to emulate the success of these trailblazers. The latest offering by Riviera Concepts, the creator, marketer and distributor of Alfred Sung, Bob Mackie, Nanette Lepore and more, Hummer fragrance for men, with full blessings and endorsement from the General Motors Corporation and Governator Arnold Schwarzenegger himself, hopes to leverage its solid base of diehard fans and is thus “targeted towards anyone who enjoys the pure thrill of off-roading and either owns or aspires to own a Hummer vehicle.”

Right from the get-go, the fragrance’s packaging leaves little to interpretation. Shaped like its namesake, Hummer reflects the well-known silhouette of the vehicle -solid, tough and boldly masculine. Even the top consists of a spray-through cap that clearly resembles an actual air-intake grille. Some of you might say that’s taking the car theme to a borderline-cheesy extreme, but at the very least its unique design does serve to distinguish Hummer from its shelf-top competition.

But the mark of an enduring fragrance is of course what’s inside the bottle, and that’s where Hummer manages to deliver. Bold but not overpowering, the scent harmoniously fuses thyme, peppercorn, green foliage and tonka beans with a spicy rush of leather, sandalwood and patchouli. Covering both ends of the usage spectrum, the scent is subtle enough for everyday wear yet equally well suited for a romantic candle-lit dinner or an exciting night on the town. Neither too fruity nor too musky, it stakes out a promising middle ground, thereby extending its potential audience and reach. For men looking to round out their lineup of fragrances or find a new one-stop shop, Hummer is definitely worthy of a test drive.

Wherever there is sunshine there are shadows, and detractors will naturally have their fair share to complain about. The packaging and branding of Hummer might alienate some consumers looking for something a little more sophisticated or less hokey, and at a suggested retail value of $52 for 4.2 fl. oz., the liquid in this tank is comparably priced with the stuff that goes into the eponymous vehicle itself. Fortunately for Hummer, the fragrance smells infinitely better than the latter.

Packaging and pricing aside, the scent itself is rugged and adventurous, and judging from positive early buzz, a loyal following will likely develop. For them awaits a full line of products encompassing a body wash, deodorant stick and aftershave splash. All are available at fine retail chains including Sephora, Macy’s and Dillard’s, and online at www.Sephora.com.

Hello sweet mamas! It’s February and it’s our month for fragrances. Last year at this time, I gave you the “all about town” for New York’s best lines of colognes and perfumes for the entire family (see archives, Feb 2004). So this year, I want to talk about aromatherapy! There is nothing quicker that evokes comfort and memories for me like wonderful smells. A warm apple pie cooking, the potpourri tucked in my childhood drawers in satin sachets, mmhh. Now I am a mama and every night after the bath, the boys and I are doused with the Dr. Hauschka lavender bath oil (www.drhauschka.com) Why? Because it is another loving cue that the day is over and it is time to let the body relax and rest.

Something in the Air
First, a word of caution. Essential oils should not, I repeat, not be applied directly to a baby’s skin under 18 months old. This is the rule of thumb. A small drop could be applied to a blanket or a teddy bear, but not to the skin. There are many companies, such as Dr. Hauschka, who make diluted oils that are sensitive enough for baby care. But if we are talking about essential oils versus diluted, an essential oil could be put into a burner that would fill the room with aromatherapy for your little ones. I had a great conversation with Malia from Aromatix @ 1169 2nd Avenue, New York, 10021, ph, 212-838-9196 (www.aromatixnyc.com). They have a wonderful electrical burner for sale, Essential Air, with a timer that runs every 25 minutes for 5 minutes. This product will fill your home with an array of products, including their line of Neal’s Yard blended oils. When the two-year old is screaming for more Playdoh while the baby is crying from teething, burn their Relaxation blended oil. When the screaming subsides and the little angels finally put their heads upon their pillows, you and papa can get out the Passion blended oil – ooh la la! For postnatal mamas wanting to get rid of stretch marks, massaging Aromatix’s Neroli oil with a massage oil into your belly works magic on your tummy, mmmmhhh. Neroli oil is distilled from the blossoms of the bitter orange tree and also has wonderful effects with insomnia, anxiety and depression. Sounds like the perfect post-partum oil to me!

Lavender to the Rescue
Around mamas and babies, Dr. Hauschka’s Lavender bath oil is practically as essential as a pacifier. Babies grow calmer from lavender. Every night, Brody (he is almost 5 months, can you believe it?) takes his tub or sponge bath, and then while he’s snuggling into his pajama outfit, mama puts a few finger-tip drops of lavender on the outside of his clothes. Then I swaddle him into the blankie I knitted him, and we have one more swig on the old bottle. Then we dance around the room to a little Josh Groban or Bette Midler Sings the Rosemary Clooney Songbook and it’s off to sleepy land. I swear he loves the whole ritual just as much as I do. The lavender smell seems to make him just purr like a kitty. In fact, his nickname in our house is “Gatito”, which means little cat in Spanish (or “Gringo Gatito, which means white boy kitty).

The word on the street, W. 19th to be exact, is ARCADIA
You can find the Dr. Hauschka line at another wonderful store in New York City, Arcadia. Arcadia is located at 261 W.19th Street, ph: 212-243-5358. The owner of this store is Jay Gurewitsch, who is passionate about his store and his products. He spent a generous amount of his time explaining to me (to you, dear mamas) all about the authenticity of essential oils. Come to find out in our interview, the United States and the FDA do not regulate these products, which is why the price differences seem so random. You won’t find a label that will say, “certified organic oil” in the U.S. It seems the U.K. market is where these products get certified by their Soil Association. So find out where a store is buying their oils, and know the average pricing on authentic essential oils is $22-$23, not $5 or $50. The other important thing you should know is that a true essential oil will irritate the skin upon direct contact, which is why these oils are mixed with base or massage oils. But as Jay told me, you can add essential oils to the bath to dilute or even your cooking oils, such as olive or almond. To make sure Jay is bringing you the real McCoy, he gets his products from Natural Health Remedies in the U.K., where the oils are certified organic (www.nhr.kz) Bravo Jay, you are a wonderful resource that I want my mamas to meet.

Shh, Little Baby Don’t You Cry
The largest U.S. offerings of aromatherapy for babies that I could find for you dear mamas is online at www.earthbaby.com or www.erbaviva.com Take a peek! If you scroll down on the homepage of Earthbaby, there is a link to their Aromatherapy product lines. The aromatherapy line they carry is California Baby ™. Their four products can be added to a diffuser that the site sells, the bath, or massage oil for baby. The products are Calming and Bedtime, Overtired, or Cranky, Resistance Builder and Colds and Flus. The Colds and Flus and Resistance Builders are probably best dispensed from a diffuser, so while your little one sleeps, he can get the benefits of such essentials a eucalyptus, fir, and tea tree. Overtired and Cranky is of course filled with chamomile, the other magical oil for babies. I have used the oil in a diffuser for its calming effects and diluted tea in my baby bottles when their tummies act up. On the Erbaviva site, they have fantastic aromatherapy products and essential oils in creams and massage oils for calming and skincare. Erbaviva can also be purchased at a Sephora location right here in Manhattan.

A story from the attic
There are other less scientific methods of aromatherapy. I feel a story being pulled down from the attic. In being mamas we all draw from the memories of our childhoods and our own families of origin, and this story of yummy smells and aromatherapy has its origins in the hearth of my dear sister Pammy’s house. She married early, acquired three cats, and then had kids while I was still sowing my oats. Pammy decorated her house just like Mom had every holiday with wonderful crafts and sparkling messages of hope and celebration. But mostly what I remember were the smells of pumpkin pies and cinnamon rolls. These weren’t smells from her ovens – Pammy burned Yankee candles all year (www.yankeecandles.com) I would hurry in from trains and planes from the U.S. and abroad, and I would tease her about what an old “marm” she had become. But in my heart, I was so grateful that she had given me a place to call home till I made my own. Now that this old Bohemian gal has settled into being a mama of her own, I decorate my house each holiday and burn Yankee candles in-between my oils. In the air are the smells of a prayer of my own for my kids. That they will remember the smells of the heart, from Mama and Papa and maybe someday, each other. Thank you sis.

Love to you all,
Mama